Improve First Impression and Build Rapport + 1 exerciseOn August 30, 2019 by Raul Dinwiddie
So what a golden globe is? Golden Globe is
a technique that is used to achieve a rapport with another person. But what is a rapport.
Rapport, on the other hand, is a close relationship in which people understand each other’s feelings
and generally communicate well. It means that people can relate to each other, and there
are no communication barriers between them. Like for example when you approach a girl,
the first barrier that may potentially appear, is a barrier of the approach itself. If a
girl is not used to such situations, when somebody approaches her in public places,
she may become nervous. So the g.globe technique is aimed to help
you to achieve the rapport. It will teach you how to relate to each other. And now guys
listen, this technique is awesome, but it won’t fix nothing in one click, it won’t make
you a superhero, it is simply here just to help you a little bit, and to give you some
insight on how our brain works. The most important thing is still your experience and practical
communication skills that you gain throughout your life.
So let’s get back to the technique itself. Long story short – you have to step into another
person’s shoes. So how do you do it. You may have heard about the energy levels
of interaction. Like for example When you are in a company of your friends, and you’re
having a great time. You fool around. You laugh. Your energy is extremely high in this
situation, and if you see a girl or maybe group of girls you like, and you approach
them all full of energy. As it may turn out, the energy level of those girls, of that group,
may not be as high as yours. For e.g. they are just sitting quietly and chat. So You
approach all full of fun, and despite, you being all awesome and stuff, it may not work
out, the girls may simply become uncomfortable and nervous, because of this difference in
your energy. Of course you may still dictate you reality and lead, but we’ll talk about
that some other time. So energy levels are important, and GG is a technique that will
help you with that. It’s very simple but does require a little
bit of practice. So here it is.
Imagine you are walking down the street or sitting is a public place. You see a girl
you like. She’s sitting there all lonely and up in her head, so what you have to do is
to observe that person. You have to see clearly what she is thinking about. What is her state
and mood. And what is her reality at the moment. You have to enter her reality. Step into her
shoes. You imagine that you are that person. Your
energy and rhythm, you heartbeat becomes the same as hers. Her reality becomes your reality.
You feel and see what she feels. Then you approach.
The use of this technique can be very effective during a day game. In clubs It won’t be that
effective, as clubs are too dynamic and full of external stimulations. Clubs require a
little bit different techniques, and we will talk about those later.
Why is it called a GG. Well, this name means that you, and the other person enter a kind
of imaginary shining object shining globe and your energy and mind become the same,
you relate to each other inside that globe. The technique is very often used by psychologists
and educators when it’s very important for them to build a rapport and trust with a person
or within a group. So as you see guys the technique is quite
simple, step into another person’s shoes, try it whenever you feel comfortable, as it
does take a bit of practice. We hope this material was useful for you, and you can always
find smth. useful on this pages. As always, thanks for watching.