Hey Steve: The Coworker’s Love Life || STEVE HARVEYOn November 4, 2019 by Raul Dinwiddie
– Hey Steve,
(audience applauding) so, about four months ago I started a job as a restaurant hostess. So, it’s a very nice restaurant so there are very attractive people, but I had my eye on this one boy that I met, and I thought that we really hit it off. This one night we were closing together, just the two of us, and we got really close and we’re flirting back and forth. A couple weeks later, I was talking with a co-worker and she mentioned that he has a girlfriend and I did not get that impression at all when we were hanging out, so now I’m nervous about the next time I see him about bringing up, “So,
you have a girlfriend?” And I just wanna know, what should I say? What should I ask? – What would you wanna say? Why, What do you mean? – ‘Cause if there’s a chance that maybe they’re on their way out, (audience laughing)
I’m just sayin’, (audience applauds) I’m not looking to break up something that’s already strong, but I’m just kinda confused why you wouldn’t mention this at all? So if there’s chance, maybe later down the line, who knows, maybe something might happen, but I don’t wanna do
anything right now. (laughs) – So that’s how y’all be
thinkin’ ’bout it sometimes? See, the reason that the
girlfriend never came up, he didn’t withhold it, you didn’t ask him to divulge it. You flirted with him, he flirted back with you. Ain’t no law against that. That’s just he got a girlfriend, he ain’t got no wife. She might not even be the one. You probably need to answer
this question right here. Since you know he has a girlfriend, why are you still in pursuit of him? (audience applauds)
See, that’s all. – I see, I see, yeah.
(audience applauds) Well, he is really cute though. – So, it doesn’t matter to you that he has a girlfriend. You don’t care if she’s on the way out. You wanna help her out. (audience laughs) – Well, I haven’t seen her or met her or anything, so. – You’re doing what we do. See, if we meet a woman, we just pursue. We don’t give a damn who you dating, that don’t mean nothin’ to us, “Oh, you datin’ him? “What that mean? “You got a ring?
“You married?” “No.” Here we come. (audience cheers and laughs) Hey look, (audience applauds) next time you see him at work, just say, “Hey, I heard you had a girlfriend.” – Just casually slip it in. – What he goin’ do? What, you can’t be mad, you can’t interrogate him. And just see where it goes, I can tell you what he goin’ say, “Yeah, but it ain’t that serious though. “Yeah, she a’ight (audience laughs) “We kinda be off and on a little bit, “I’m still tryin’ to figure it out.” Ladies, that’s what he goin’ say. ‘Cause he gotta see what this
talkin’ ’bout right here. Men are hunters and we continue the hunt
until we find the one. And if you not the one, the hunt is on. You ain’t gotta get mad at him, he just doin’ what his DNA makes him do. He’s just hunting, it’s okay. You just do what you do, bust his windows out, that’s all. (audience applauds and laughs) Hey, you made it to the end of this video. I got a lot more that you’re gonna enjoy, so just click to watch the next one, and make sure you subscribe to always know what’s happenin’.